‘Waiting together in the dark for something to happen’
“At times like this we need to be reminded that we are not alone, as we are in this together, ‘sitting together in the dark’. It is what followers of Jesus have done since the very earliest times,” says Bishop Jeremy Greaves as he reflects on the Inuit word, qarrtsiluni
In the Arctic, winter lasts for nine months and for much of that time people live in 24/7 darkness. The average Arctic winter temperature is -34°C, while the average Arctic summer temperature is 3-12°C. It is hard to imagine what that might be like – waiting and waiting for the first signs that the sun is returning after the long darkness.
Last week On Being – a website and podcast – provided me with a new word from a people who know the long Arctic winter. It is an Inuit word, qarrtsiluni – a word that I am not even sure how to pronounce, but the article suggested that it was a perfect word for Lent…it seems to me that it is a perfect word for this strange time we are in more broadly.
Qarrtsiluni means something like:
‘Sitting together in the dark, waiting for something to happen.’
More than ever, we all know that feeling…despite the endless news updates that roll across my phone and my iPad and my television and fill the radio…I feel like the lights have gone out and I am left squinting and peering through the gloom for signs that the sun is returning…and, I am afraid.
I am afraid of getting sick. I am afraid of what will happen if my family gets sick. I am afraid for the future of parishes I care for, and for their clergy. Last night I lay awake in the wee small hours in the dark feeling sick in the pit of my stomach as all these fears fed on each other and got worse and worse…
And then I remembered, qarrtsiluni – ‘sitting in the dark, waiting for something to happen.’ And, I thought, I know something of how these Inuit feel…alone in the darkness with their fears and anxieties.
Except it is not that. It is not ‘sitting in the dark, waiting for something to happen.’
It is ‘sitting together in the dark, waiting for something to happen.’
You see, it’s not that I am afraid of the dark…I am afraid of being alone. Perhaps that fear is what is clearing supermarket shelves as people, so convinced that they have to look out for number one and no one else, hoard toilet paper and hand sanitiser and kitchen towel and tinned food and pasta and flour and rice and meat…meat!!! Why on earth would anyone feel compelled to hoard meat??? Well people have even begun hoarding over-the-counter Ventolin inhalers, making it difficult for asthma sufferers to get it without a prescription. People feel so disconnected from others that it does not cross their minds that their selfishness will hurt others. We have become so disconnected that we live in perpetual states of anxiety and depression and this is how those things manifest themselves when fear is thrown into the mix.
At times like this we need to be reminded that we are not alone, as we are in this together, ’sitting together in the dark’. It is what followers of Jesus have done since the very earliest times…they gathered…on that Holy Saturday they gathered…they gathered in fear and in confusion…but, they gathered together in the dark, waiting for something to happen.
For now, we need to find new ways of gathering – by phone and email and Zoom and Skype and Facebook – but gather we must, so that we can rest into the love of the Body of Christ, “the perfect love that casts out fear” (1 John 4.18).
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